fuckpua
Help you see if someone is using words to pressure you, trick you, or control you.
Have you ever felt like this?
- •Someone says a few words, and suddenly you feel guilty
- •You don't want to say yes, but you're being pushed to agree
- •The conversation is over, but you feel terrible inside
- •You feel like it's your fault, but can't explain why
If yes, you're not overthinking. You're not too sensitive.
Not sure what's happening?
Start here.
I feel bad. Don't know why.
Someone said something. Now I feel guilty, confused. Maybe it's me? Maybe it's them?
This keeps happening.
At work, at home, at school. Same pattern. Different people. I need to understand why.
They said this to me.
I have the exact words. Something feels off. What are they really doing?
You don't have to be sure. You don't have to label anyone. Just start wherever feels right.
Some people don't hit you. Don't yell at you.
But they use words to make you obey.
Like:
"I'm doing this for your own good"
"Why are you so selfish?"
"Everyone else can do it, why can't you?"
"You're being too sensitive"
These are all ways of using words to pressure you.
fuckpua helps you do 3 things:
- 1.Tell you: Is this really someone pressuring you?
- 2.Explain those "words that make you uncomfortable"
- 3.Tell you: You don't have to answer right away. You don't have to agree right away.
We don't teach you to fight back.
We don't teach you revenge.
We just help you stop getting trapped.
You don't have to doubt yourself until you give in.
Feeling something is wrong? That feeling is already right.
Say no to PUA when:
someone pressures you and calls it "communication"
""We need to talk about why you're being difficult""
your boundaries are reframed as "selfish"
""I can't believe you're putting yourself first again""
you're told you're "too sensitive" for reacting
""You're overreacting. I was just joking""
your reality is slowly rewritten for you
""That never happened. You're remembering it wrong""
If you feel confused, frozen, or guilty —
that's not weakness.
That's manipulation working as designed.
PUA Language Analyzer
Detect manipulation patterns in real-time
Guilt Tripping
"After everything I've done for you"
Victim Playing
"You're just like everyone else who's hurt me"
Boundary Violation
Labeling your boundaries as "selfish"
Your Defense System
Everything you need to recognize and resist manipulation
Emergency Help
If you're experiencing severe abuse or PUA behavior